Monday, September 28, 2015

You have to be strong

Life is a bumpy road. There are times when life takes a dramatic turn and with it everything changes. Where you have been happy with the things happening around you, you thought everything would be good and just then a disaster comes into your life and turns your life upside down. It's not common to you, it happens with every other person around the world just the frequency matters.

It may be something you were trying hard for and failed in it, just things you didn't want to happen went wrong in the last minute. It may be that someone very close to you hurt you bad. Sometimes we just think that life is so tough when we see the difficulties and burden we face. Some of us just get bogged down with this and get depressed. They think a lot, land nowhere and waste a whole lot of time. For others that thing just keep on coming everyday for a short period of time and disturbs them.There are very few of us who just don't give a damn about anything and just enjoy their life. Not everyone can be like them.

Academics, family, relationships, hardships, career constantly disturb our life in one or the other. But a person who comes out strong handling all these is the one who succeds and completes their dream. Sometimes, in life you just have to move on. Only you know the extent to which you are hurt. Only you know how hard it hit you when you fell down or someone let you down. Only you know what are your dreams and how you want to be. Introspection! most of just miss out here. We always blame others, blame the surroundings and all the other things for your condition. But after all its we.

Every little thing that we do everyday in our life effects us. Someone hurt you, understand the situation they are going through or the mistake you have done, don't hurt them back. Calm down, take your own time, give them some time and talk to them about this. You hurt someone, okay it's your time to apologize. Think about, how bad it had been on their side. Realize what you have done, if you feel it's their mistake, go take courage and talk to them.

Life is against you, get up, gather all the courage you can, one who survives the storm is the fittest. You are the best, you know what you can do to make your life and still if you are not doing it, no one in this world can help you. You are the only one who can inspire yourself, motivate yourself and make yourself feel up. It's your thoughts, your actions that determine you.

So think about it. You can change your academics by just self motivation, realising your goals, keeping up to targets. It's tough, but the one who does it is the one who makes it to the top. You can have a better relationship, give them their space, understand them, set it free and most important feel it. No one is perfect in this world, everyone does mistakes. One should realise this and learn from the same. You can make your family happy, just say that you love them and you will do whatever you can to make the most of your life. No parent want to see their children unhappy. If you are not able to do well in your life, you are not on  the right track. Introspect! You need to change your persepective and catch another train.

Life is tough, you should let some things go, you should be strong enough to face defeats, be prepared to face a disaster, make people happy, make them feel your presence. Do small things everyday that improve your life. Read an article like this. Give someone their lost smile. Read a book. Go to your favorite place. Talk to someone, you haven't for long. Reallise the situtaion the other person is in and console them. Most important, utilise the most of your time and remember three L's Live, Learn, Love.